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A lot of people
do not attend church like they used to for many reasons. Some were hurt by the
church, others can’t seem to find “their fit”, others simply gave up because of
the drama that can be found in a church. It seems today that we live in a world
where having healthy conversations about our differences has divided churches.
Church hopping has become a thing for those who can’t find the perfect
church to meet their needs.
Hey, I get it! There was a time in my past life that I
didn’t attend church, I simply didn’t feel the need to do so. Sleeping in on
Sunday mornings was prime down time for me back in the day!
Whatever excuse we can come up with, there are some good reasons
as to why we are to attend church. And by the way, there is no perfect church,
not one on this side of heaven is perfect! Nor are the people in the church
perfect. Yes, Christian folks are to do their best to be Christ-like, so it’s
sometimes a head scratcher when things go terribly wrong. Churches are to be
hospitals for the spiritually sick. And trust me we all need a spiritual
hospital! Maybe we need to adult better and revisit the words grace, mercy,
forgiveness, love one another, and communicate well to keep the body of Christ
joined together as one. Just a thought.
The following are excerpts on this topic from “Making Wise
Choices…the most important life skill to master”, the Bible study that I wrote.
Question: Can you be a Christian and never attend church?
Answer: Yes. Look at the thief on the cross in Luke
23:39-43. He never had a chance to be a part of the church. He was converted
while hanging on the cross – he trusted Jesus who was hanging next to him.
Those who are homebound cannot physically go to church, they are still
Christians. However, if you are a Christian and are abled bodied, you should want to do
what Christ asks us to do, attend church.
Question: What do you think a Christian would be missing
out on by not choosing to attend a church?
Answer: It would be like marrying a husband or wife
and never moving in. You would miss out on the relationship, serving and caring
for one another.
Question: What does Hebrews 10:24,25 instruct us to do?
Answer: To meet together, encourage and spur one
another on.
Question: The Church is not a place or a building that a
person can go to. The Christian people are the Church. God created us with the
need for community and companionship. What are some of the benefits of being a
part of the Church?
Answer:
- · Matthew 18:20 – Where two or three come together Jesus is with us.
- · Acts 2:42-47 – The people were devoted to the teachings, to prayer, they were filled with awe, had everything in common, helped whoever was in need, had fellowship, had glad and sincere hearts, found favor with everyone, and the Lord added to their number those who were being saved.
- · Romans 12:5, 15:6 – They were of one body, one heart, one mouth to glorify God the father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
- · 1 Corinthians 1:2, 12:12-26 – We are the body of Christ and we each are a part of it. One body, one spirit with equal concern for each other
Question: What do we gain by worshiping with others?
Answer:
- · Corporate worship is a way to help us grow (Hebrews 10:19-22)
- · It helps to draw us near to Him and brings us into his presence (Matthew 18:20)
- · We are following the commands in scripture (Hebrews 10:25)
- · We celebrate the privilege of being able to worship together (Psalm 111:1)
- · It brings about a thankful heart (Psalms 95:1-2)
- · It brings about gladness and joy (Psalm 100:2)
Question: What does God gain?
Answer:
- · He gains us (Romans 12:1)
- · He gains our time, our fellowship when we worship with pure hearts, concentrating on Him, and He can tell us what he wants (Ezekiel 36:27, John 14:16-17)
Make sure you are committed to a church. It is vital, God
thought so or he wouldn’t have set us up with one to begin with. He knows how
much trouble we can get into on our own and we need the support, encouragement,
and accountability from our like-minded peers.
Our lives should be the statement of what we believe. Acts
2:42-47 states…” the Lord added to their number those who were being saved.”
Beautiful results come from a devoted and loving church.
Debra Lee, Author & Keynote Speaker
Blogger, Life Coach, Business Coach

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