Saturday, May 30, 2026

Father's Day Tribute...again! I found a treasure!

 


I wrote a tribute to my larger-than-life father many years ago. You can read it here.

This Father’s Day, I am sharing a treasure I found a few months ago!

When we had to move Mom to a nursing home, almost six years ago, the house and belongings were all sold. I did keep some family photos and a few keepsakes. Mom passed earlier this year, which prompted me to go through a few more things and weed out some items.

While going through the remaining items, I opened my dad’s Bibles for the first time. What treasures were found! Dad always had perfect handwriting, and I found his handwritten notes, many on stationery paper that he taped inside the back covers of the Bibles. Like, pages of notes!

One of the treasures I found was his handwritten testimony! I read this with amazement and learned a few more things about my dad!

I could hear his voice again as I read:

“I was raised in a Christian home by a dad who was old enough to be my grandfather.

I attended church every Sunday as required until I was 8 years old. My dad’s employment in the war defense industry, where he worked on Sundays, changed the pattern of family attendance. Very often, though, church attendance was required of me.

My mother was thoroughly a Christian, the most faithful Christian I’ve known.

My teenage years were spent in a rough neighborhood in the city, where I battled my way.

I had always considered my parents' Christianity as something old-fashioned. I did not believe the Bible. I was under conviction many times, though. I would go along with the idea that there possibly was a God. I wanted to go my own way without any interference.

My Mother would weep in my presence over my unbelief and ungodly remarks. She never gave up and often told me how she was continuing to pray for me.

One Christian girl I met and later married was absolute in her beliefs. Her faith and goodness were unwavering. We attended church together during our courtship.

In the spring of the year, I was 19 years old, and I accepted Jesus Christ as my personal Savior during an altar call. A few days later, I followed the Lord in baptism at 13th Street in the Arkansas River.

After accepting Jesus as my savior, I believed he walked on the water and calmed the sea, that he willingly died to pay for my sins, that he arose from the grave, making intercession for me to God the Father.

Jesus Christ is the King of Kings, the Son of God, and the Lord of lords, and he lives in my life.

On occasions, I’ve had my doubts about being saved and gone to the Lord on my knees to make sure. On each of these occasions, I walked away with an amazing, peaceful feeling.

I walked through many physically dangerous situations during a long and dangerous career.

Going by some kind of law of averages, I shouldn’t even still be alive.

God has his purpose for me to attend to.

Spiritual things are permanent and everlasting. Physical things are temporary and, therefore, not as important. “

Debra Lee

DLBizServices.com | Author & Keynote | Biz & Life Coach

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Thursday, May 14, 2026

Why I work with MLMs and how I help them with their business.

 


Some business coaches won't work with MLMs because they don’t consider them real businesses. MLMs have gotten a bad rap over the years due to bad actors. They are still out there, constantly coming up with new schemes. However, there are some very legitimate MLM businesses out there.

Back in the day, I joined an MLM that was very successfully founded in the 1960s and is still operating internationally today. Its founding model was solid and worked well for women who needed to raise kids and earn extra income.

Things you are most generally told when you join an MLM are: “You are in business for yourself but not by yourself.” “The product sells itself.” “You don’t need business experience; we will teach you!” “We are just getting started with the company. Get in on the ground floor and make some money.” “We have a back office that does all the work for you.” “Make a full-time income doing part-time work.”

Those last two always get me. Part-time, ain’t going to do it, especially starting out, and is that back office tracking your business expenses, like gas?

I worked with the MLM I was with for twelve years, and I learned a lot about how they operate. MLMs are great at teaching you about their products and providing extensive education in sales, sales techniques, and closing deals. And by the way, most MLM products are usually top-notch (not always snake oil), and people do love to use them! I was the top salesperson in my district during my first six months, and I continued to rank highly within the team, earning all kinds of prizes, diamonds, and accolades.

When I joined the company, I already had a solid business and sales background and immediately noticed some flaws in the system. Because of my background, I approached my role as if I meant business. I set up spreadsheets, customer tracking, P&Ls, call logs, and calendars. This was back in the day, so there were no computers or systems within the company to help with these items. They only tracked how much money you were spending with them and any commissions from building your team.

How much money you spent with them was how you became the queen of sales. Not by how much you were selling. They figured that if you are purchasing, then you must be selling. Not true.

What I observed was strong women taking advantage of women who didn’t know anything about business, how to run one, or how to get the contacts to start one. The entry fee was under two hundred dollars, but the stronger woman would talk women into purchasing LARGE amounts of inventory to start a business, even though they knew the women had no experience and only had time to work for a few hours a week. It was unconscionable. Boy, do I have stories.

I knew women who were left in tears, having to put a second mortgage on their homes, who couldn’t retire, who had to take out loans or file bankruptcy because they trusted the woman who recruited them as they purchased too deeply into the products. AND to top it all off, the products had a shelf life. So much of it had to be tossed when the sales didn’t come. When I asked one of the recruiters if she felt guilty for what she was doing to people, her answer was, "Nope, they are adults and can make their own decisions.” Wow.

Now, about consumable goods. If you are going to sell something, consumables are a great choice. If clients love the product, repeat sales are great! All you have to do is follow up and get immediate sales. It is easier to keep a client than to find new ones.

So, about those profit margins. Sometimes, the profit margins are very low, depending on how much you purchased. The more you buy, the higher the margins. However, even at their highest, the margins are still low for a reseller.

I have an extensive background in retail sales. Trust me, stores cannot make a profit on the margins they offer to MLM sales reps. When I owned or ran stores, I always looked for products that I could get a 200% or more profit margin on! Trust me, you won’t find that in an MLM. Yes, overhead is much higher for brick-and-mortar, but there is also overhead for those who work in MLMs that must be accounted for.

I sold a ton of products, but the margins were too low to make a substantial profit. Why? The cost of goods sold PLUS the cost of doing business. When you add in the cost of doing business, like supplies, catalogs, business cards, gas, sacks, and other business-related items, the profit was slim to none.

So, how do you make real money in an MLM? The answer is to strategically plan. The answer is who you know and how many contacts you have in your little black book to get started with. The answer is building a team.

Building a team. First and foremost, only the top people in the MLM make all the money. Usually, they were there at the start of the company. They profit from all their recruits and the teams their recruits build, and so on down the chain. They profit from your purchases.

When I built my team, I always told them to listen only to me when it came to buying their products. I trained them like business owners. Yes, we learned from the company as well, but I felt responsible for these women and was not going to set them up to fail, go bankrupt, or anything like that. I treated them not as a number or as a way to make money off of them, but with respect for their talents, income levels, and knowledge, and I worked from there. If they wanted it badly enough and were able to put in the work and the hours, then I would teach them how. I was honest with them about the real investment!

So, how do I help MLMs? I start with a simple business plan. I get a lot of arguments over this; no one wants to write one. But we don’t move from that point. If they won’t write a business plan, and I teach them how to do it, then I won’t move forward with helping them. A business plan keeps you on track, on mission, and out of hot water when you have planned out the finances and planned for the what-ifs.

I teach inventory control, open-to-buy, team building, and how to create a basic P&L that tracks income, commissions, cost of goods sold, and outgoing expenses. You have to work with real numbers! Otherwise, you might as well throw spaghetti at the walls.

Case in point. Someone I knew who was in an MLM was so excited about the sales she made at an event she had a booth at. “Debra! I made $300 dollars at that event.” Here’s the deal: Sales do not equal income. She was so confused by this.

I asked her what the cost of goods was for the items she sold. She couldn’t tell me. I asked her if she added up her expenses for being there, like the cost of the booth, gas, flyers, business cards, etc. She hadn’t. She did not make $300 or even close. She didn’t know how to figure it out either.

I know that when I was in the MLM, the higher-ups were not happy with the training I provided to my team, and they even asked me to stop training women on how businesses really work.  Why? Mostly because my team was educated and wouldn’t fall for the tricks. And there were some shenanigans going on for sure.

I provide the education you need if you are going to be in an MLM. Why do I work with MLMs? Education is empowerment. You will know how they work, what they don’t teach you, and how to keep everyone out of hot water and still be successful.

 

Debra Lee | Biz & Life Coach | Author & Keynote Speaker | DLBizServices.com


Wednesday, May 13, 2026

Referral Marketing - Make a Successful System!

 

Most small and mid-sized businesses rely on referrals. But many rely on them passively instead of pursuing them strategically. 

Here’s why referral efforts can fall short:

·         No Clear Ask

·         Incentives that don’t motivate anyone

·         Timing is off

·         The process is awkward

·         No reinforcement loop – no follow-up

Effective referral programs are simple, specific, and designed around behavior. They clearly answer the questions of who should refer, who they should refer to, and how to do it in a simple manner.

They also make the referrer feel smart for introducing you. Your program should make them look good and pay them for the referral.

Follow these steps to build a referral system that works:

Step 1: Define your ideal referral source - Identify which client or partner types have access to your target buyer. That might be clients in adjacent industries, strategic partners, vendors serving the same market, or former clients with strong networks of your target clients.

Step 2: Clarify exactly who you want to be referred to - Replace “anyone who needs marketing help” with something like “founders of service businesses doing 500k to 3M who are trying to scale and feel operationally stretched.”

Specificity makes referrals easier because people can quickly scan their mental contact list and recognize a good referral opportunity when it comes up.

Step 3: Create a simple referral path - Make the process extremely simple. Good options include unique referral links or a short intro template they can copy and paste. You can also just give them a calendar link to send to a potential referral so they can schedule a direct appointment with you.

If it takes more than 30 seconds to refer to you, it’s too complicated.

Step 4: Align incentives with effort and brand - Choose a reward that fits your positioning and margins. Possibilities include a cash percentage of the closed deal, credit toward your business, and tiered reward systems for multiple referrals. Keep it clear and simple, and state exactly when and how rewards are paid.

Step 5: Trigger the ask at the right moment - Automate referral requests at high-satisfaction moments, such as after a measurable win or positive feedback. If you have recurring contracts, another great time to ask is after renewal. Integrate this process into your workflow for you and your team so you don't rely on memory.

Step 6: Close the loop every time - Always update the referrer, even if the lead doesn’t convert. A simple message like “Thanks for connecting us, we spoke, and it wasn’t a fit, but I appreciate you thinking of us” keeps the relationship strong and reinforces the same behavior in the future.

One reason founders hesitate to formalize referrals is fear of giving away too much revenue. If you normally spend $1,500 on ads or sales time to acquire a client, paying a partner $1,000 for a closed deal is cheaper.

Also consider lifetime value. Paying more upfront can still be profitable if clients stay longer or expand, but you won’t want to pay more than the lifetime value of an average client — so this is an important checkpoint as well.

The biggest shift is moving from occasional referrals to a predictable referral flow. That happens when the program becomes part of your operating system.

There are lots of ways to do this. A great way to start is by adding information on how to refer right up front in onboarding. Mention it to clients during regular check-ins and listen for opportunities to ask for referrals. You can also include it in places people often see, such as newsletters or your website.

Remember, tracking referrals is a crucial step as well. Once you’re tracking these, you’ll be able to recognize patterns in sources of referrals and what types of asks are producing the best results, so you can double down on those and cut out things that aren’t working.

Referrals feel organic, but high-performing referral pipelines are engineered. The difference between inconsistent word of mouth and a reliable referral engine is structure. When you make it frictionless and reward the right behavior, referrals start becoming more predictable.

Most companies can access the leads they need simply by improving the systems they use to activate the relationships they already have.

Debra Lee | Author & Keynote | Biz & Life Coach | DLBizServices.com 

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Monday, May 4, 2026


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