Monday, March 31, 2025

The Easter Story gives us our Hope & Future!


 Hello everyone! Happy Easter! ✟

A Christian's HOPE is based upon the Easter story. Many focus on the Cross this time of year and its meaning. The best part of the story is the empty tomb. Without a doubt, I know where my hope and future lie. Through faith, belief, and a personal walk and relationship with God, I know that heaven is my destination. Jesus made a way for that to be possible by what he did on the cross.

News flash! The world is in a mess, and we can see the book of Revelation being played out in real time. Regardless of what is happening all around us, keep in mind that God is in control. He knows the BIG plan. Our focus should be on heavenly things, and not on things of this world.

So how do we do this when it seems like everything is spinning out of control?

Stay focused. Like a ballerina spinning around and around, she finds a focal point to keep her from getting dizzy and falling over.

The devil likes nothing more than to distract us. Staying focused allows us to be a source of light during the dark days. Be a resource. Who can you compliment or smile at? Who needs help, who needs food or a meal?  Who needs to hear about Christ, so they can have the same hope and peace that many of us have?

Don’t Ignore. I’m not saying to ignore what is going on. Ignorance is not bliss. It’s a dangerous thing to do. We need to be prepared and informed so as not to get blindsided. Stand up for those who are being abused or mistreated. We will be held accountable if we stick our heads in the sand and pretend ‘this’ is not happening.

Unfortunately, sometimes it takes a shakeup, a tragedy, or major losses to get people to a place where they cry out to God. Be that person who is available to guide and disciple.

Look at this mess as an opportunity to share the Word and bring hope and light to as many as you can. It’s not over until it’s over.

Most of all, pray. There is power in prayer and Jesus’ name. Pray for our world, our nation, those being persecuted, and mostly, the lost. Pray for God’s peace to relieve all anxiety and fears that most folks are feeling. And remember, God's got this!

The beautiful Easter Story in the Bible is the account of Palm Sunday to resurrection day. The week starts with excitement, ending with questions and devastation on Friday. Then a miracle happened on the third day, Sunday, the Risen Savior. Our Hope and Future is seen in that moment. Take time to read it this year, ponder on it, and share it with others. It’s a story that will put us at peace and it is something to be excited about!

Have a wonderful month, Celebrating the Easter Story! ✟ 

Debra Lee | Biz & Life Coach | Author | Keynote Speaker | Blogger

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The Tale of Two Women

Honest Dealings

 

    Many years ago, I owned a variety gift shop. One of its categories was home décor. One day, Lady R came to the shop. I knew Lady R from my parents' church. I knew she was a church member along with her husband, a deacon, for many years.

While Lady R was in the store, she dropped a home décor item and broke it. I was not watching her, but when I heard the thud on the carpet, I knew she’d broken something. When I turned to look toward her, her back was to me, and it was obvious that she was trying to hide something. She continued shopping, made her purchase, and left.

I went to the area where I heard the thud and found the item that she had broken. She had put it back together and placed it on the shelf like nothing was wrong.

There’s a whole lot wrong here, but most importantly, she set it up for someone else to take the fall when it fell apart in their hands.

The funny thing is, I would not have had her pay for it. I never made anyone pay for an accident. She did ruin her reputation, however, and it was quite a payment out of her status bank.

Lady V was someone I knew from a church I went to years ago. Lady V had set her sights on some property. It was owned by an elderly couple who needed to sell out to afford the move to a nursing home.

Lady V knew the situation and held out on making an offer on purpose. She knew that the elderly couple was on a deadline to sell. She waited until the last minute to make an offer and made the offer way below what they were asking. They had no choice; they were out of time.

Lady V then went to church and bragged to her friends about this great deal she had gotten on some land.

There’s a whole lot wrong here as well. The elderly couple needed just below the asking price to break even and get the care they needed. The low-ball sale put them in hardship. Lady V could have paid slightly below the asking price but instead chose to gouge and then bragged about it.

Not a good deal at all. Again, her status account was depleted as well. Lady V got that land, but many years later was forced to sell it herself.

The Bible tells us to be honest in our dealings. It also tells us not to brag about our good deals.

"It’s no good, it’s no good!" says the buyer—then goes off and boasts about the purchase. Proverbs 20:14

What's depicted here is a common tactic in business negotiations: to downplay the value of something one wishes to buy. 

This practice can become blatantly dishonest. Some buyers or sellers overtly lie about a potential transaction. They go beyond looking to make a fair-yet-profitable deal. Deception and lies in business are forms of theft; it's cheating. 

Here are some other verses for understanding.

Proverbs 22:16 | “Whoever oppresses the poor to increase his own wealth, or gives to the rich, will only come to poverty.”

Proverbs 22:1 | “A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches, and favor is better than silver or gold”.

Leviticus 19:11 | “You shall not steal; you shall not deal falsely; you shall not lie to one another.”

Luke 6:31 | “And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them.”

Proverbs 11:3 | “The integrity of the upright guides them, but the crookedness of the treacherous destroys them.”

Hebrews 13:18 | |”‘Pray for us, for we are sure that we have a clear conscience, desiring to act honorably in all things.”

Proverbs 28:6 | “Better is a poor man who walks in his integrity than a rich man who is crooked in his ways.”

Proverbs 16:18 | “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.”

Philippians 2:3 | “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.” 

James 4:16 | “But as it is, you boast in your arrogance; all such boasting is evil.”


Debra Lee | Biz & Life Coach | Author | Keynote Speaker | Blogger

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Leading without Position

From the Book, 
Influence: Leading without Position” by Philip E. Morrison and Hankuri Tawus Gaya

 

     Many leaders use power and position to compel others to do what they want. This may be through political leverage, military power, economic advantage, or spiritual authority. Think of a politician’s privileged advantage of speeding past others in the traffic, or a rich person bribing to escape punishment for breaking the law. Jesus describes how the rulers of the world lord it over their subjects because of power and position (Mark 10:42). 

Even disciples of Christ can fall into this pattern. But the way of the world’s power is not to be the way of the Christian. Jesus says this is not to be true of us. The servant leader cannot use force. Usually, servant leaders do not have institutional or positional power. They must influence hearts, so their followers willingly change or act.

The New Testament redefines power in the life and ministry of the believer. Power is not based on physical, intellectual, social, economic, or political superiority. Instead, power is expressed in service and weakness. As an influencer, Jesus demonstrated this throughout his life. Remember, he was not one of the successful people whose power came from his wealth, physical appearance, education, or status. He was not very remarkable in the world’s eyes. Jesus was an ordinary man, a young carpenter, with no position or earthly power. He was an itinerant rabbi with an eclectic entourage of fishermen, tax-gatherers, and rebels, with one who would eventually betray him. Yet Jesus exercised great influence. He identified with us in weakness. He showed us that God is in the ordinary. 

The way Jesus accomplished his mission was by influence rather than force. He could have displayed his divine power in terrifying lightning and earthquakes, in immediate judgment, to make people repent and believe. Instead, He selected 12 disciples, poured his life into them for three years, taught them, ate with them, and served with them. After His ascension, He released them to influence others with the message of the gospel. They turned the world upside down! Not with force, but with service.

Can you think of when you tried to use power and position versus a time you served with love? How did the results compare? 


Debra Lee | Biz & Life Coach | Author | Keynote Speaker | Blogger

Books: “It Is What It Is…But It Wasn’t A Tragedy” | “Making Wise Choices…the most important life skill to master”

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Monday, March 17, 2025

Message for Daily Living | Kindness


 Exploring what Kindness is. The world needs a bit more of this right now!

Debra Lee | Biz & Life Coach | Author | Keynote Speaker | Blogger

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Thursday, March 13, 2025

Message for Daily Living on Integrity

 


Integrity is the most valuable characteristic that you can have, and it is important to protect it at all costs. See what America thinks.


 

Debra Lee | Biz & Life Coach | Author | Keynote Speaker | Blogger

Books: “It Is What It Is…But It Wasn’t A Tragedy” | “Making Wise Choices…the most important life skill to master”

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Tuesday, March 11, 2025

Against all odds...the Power of Teamwork!


 

     Many years ago, I was asked to become the Executive Director of a ministry that had only been run by men since its inception.

The ministry tried and tried to get someone from within the organization to step in and take the position, but no one wanted it. They went to outside sources to find a man to take the position. The ones who interviewed ghosted the opportunity.

After three months of interviews and with a complete understanding of what I would be up against, I took the position.  Up against, you ask. Yes, I was up against some men who did not think that a woman should be the head of anything, especially a ministry.

This, of course, did not deter me from taking the job. God had called me to it, and I obeyed.

My first task was to interview the staff individually so I would get to know them. I wanted to learn about their roles and give them space to learn a little about me.

I knew who my biggest opponent was, and I couldn’t wait to talk to him. Before our meeting started, he abruptly announced that we needed to talk about the elephant in the room. I chuckled and assured him that I was not an elephant.

I let him have his say about women and about their places and on and on. I listened without interrupting so that he would feel that I had heard him. And I did. You see, his words did not phase me; it wasn’t the first time in my career that a man tried to tell me what I could be or not be.

When he was finished, I leaned forward and told him I wasn’t there to prove that a woman could run a ministry. I told him I was there to get a one million dollar building project completed and up and running, that I was there to find $450 K in four months to finish and match a grant, and that I was there to help the ministry move forward after a devastating event that had happened right before I came on board.

Then I stared at him with all-purpose and intent, and asked, “Are you a team player and are you on board or not?” “For the sake of this ministry, will you help get these things accomplished?”

Suddenly, his defenses dropped, and his attitude changed. He said that he would be a team player. Then I told him, “Then let’s get to work!”

There is power in teamwork. Everyone on the team must be unified for the work to get done. A team that is challenged for the better and uplifted by a leader who looks out for the interests of those on the team can do great things.

You see, I could have been resentful of his thoughts and words. I could have dismissed him. But I chose to hear him out, listen, and find a way to make it work with him.

Against all odds, even when most of the office was against me being there, as a team, we made it happen.


Debra Lee | Biz & Life Coach | Author | Keynote Speaker | Blogger

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Saturday, March 1, 2025

A LONG OP-ED… Our Responsibilities During These Strange Times


Our duties include providing aid and care.

God gives us some responsibilities while we live on this earth. The three items listed above in the graphic are the main categories. We have all been given the duty of the great commission, too: Sharing the Gospel, the Good News of Christ, is a part of that commission.

God also gives everyone spiritual gifts. All gifts are different and are used independently but for the whole cause and growth of the Church.

Taking care of the Earth has been challenging, and we have mostly failed that assignment. We see many pictures from across the globe of the damage that we, as humans, have caused. However, some people are gifted and have been given the mission, by God, to take care of the earth! They become scientists, they learn how to conserve the soil, save forests, and learn and teach about so many other items that are vital to helping the earth survive. Some ask why even try. The earth will be destroyed anyway, according to the Bible. Why, you ask? Because God told us to. And we are to do our best to the end.

I have met many people with a passion for helping animals. They are gifted and have been given this mission by God. Some do horse rescues, and others rescue dogs and cats. Many are advocates for whales and sea life. Others work hard not to let a species go extinct. Animals are important to the world. God thought so, and he gave man oversight of them.

Everyone is commanded to love all people, and some take on causes to help those in need. They work in NGOs and other agencies and organizations to help make a difference one life at a time. Others volunteer their time to help other humans. Some have professions like teachers, nurses, firefighters, and police. The list of people who help goes on and on.

We all have gifts, passions, and missions that God gives us. Not one is above the other or more important than the other. We are to do what God has purposed us for. I’ve seen it many times, finger-pointing because someone finds something to support that another thinks is fruitless, costly, or a waste of time. The finger-pointers have no idea what the other person has been instructed to do by God, and it’s no one's business.

Regardless of which category listed above you fall in, God has given you a platform to share the gospel with others, even if you only show God’s love and light to others through your works, without a word said. Carry out His instructions and ignore the finger-pointers.

Some help within their local communities, and others work to help across our nation. Some help overseas and will send money to causes or travel to a location to help. One of my friends is currently in Ukraine helping and has been there for three years as a Disaster Response/Humanitarian and has worked with the Pentagon, Red Cross, FEEMA, US Capital, and many others, tending to people in need. Her updates are incredibly hard to read with all the devastation that is going on there. She’s one of those people who is retired and still going.

Here's the bottom line. If we do not cry for what breaks Jesus’ heart, then our hearts have become hardened. If seeing the earth die doesn’t make us cry, or seeing a dog mistreated and beaten doesn’t make us cry, and if the cruelty we see imposed on innocent people and children through trafficking or war or other atrocities doesn’t make us cry, we are doomed.

You see, there is no us and them. We are all in this sandbox together, and we must work together to bring about change for the better. We must try to bring peace. We must care for the things that God has put us in charge of. Some say, why try? Because God told us to, and we are to do our best until the end.

My father was a public servant in the field of law enforcement. He was a Godly man and set great examples for how we are to care. I have been given the gift to help others, to stand up for the underdog, and help the widowed, orphaned, the poor and the homeless. I have counted it as a blessing, though not always easy work, to help. To care.

I held a fundraiser for Ukraine at my business when the war broke out. We raised money for Doctors Without Borders as they were running out of medical supplies for Ukraine very quickly. I cried for the death and destruction and the kidnapping of children and the murder and rape of women. It was our little bit to do, safely, stateside. Why? Because God told me to. My heart was open, and I responded.

I know I will never be able to go overseas to do mission work. Years ago, an opportunity came up with AmeriCorps, which is the stateside Peace Corps, and I jumped on it. I took a two-year contract to help with the Government’s Refugee Resettlement Program. The first year of the contract was designated for developing a volunteer program and getting it off the ground, and the second year of the contract was to develop its funding programs.

That wasn’t all that I did. Our office resettled people from at least five countries who came from overseas. The mission field came to me. I count it as a blessing to understand the plight of the refugees. I heard their stories and listened to their horror and nightmares.  One case file was so horrific that I never read it. I was told some of it and didn’t need to know anymore. I saw the scars on their skin from being macheted, then there were the kind of scars that were kept most secret.

This program was the safest program that our government had. Those in the program had been vetted for two years and had met all the criteria to be resettled to another country. Catholic Charities, Lutheran Social Services, & The Episcopal Church have offices across our country to help with the resettlement program.  The IRC, which was founded during World War II by Albert Einstein, is the largest resettlement group that operates across the globe.

Refugees didn’t get to pick what country they would go to. I thought they were brave because they didn’t know where they were going, what language they might need to learn, a new culture, and many other unknown things. Why? Because they were being persecuted for their religious or political beliefs, and it was unsafe in their home of origin.

I had someone walk up to me at my church and ask me how I could call myself a Christian and work in refugee resettlement. I looked at him and asked how I could call myself a Christian and not.

Let’s not forget that Mary, Joseph, and Jesus were refugees! Most refugees I worked with were Christians, Brothers and Sisters in Christ.  I also worked with other religions and had great conversations as I gained an understanding of some of the belief systems that are different from my own. No judgments, just great conversations. Why? Because I cared. I cried for them and all that they had suffered.

One day, I sat down with one of the refugees visiting our office, as I could tell he needed to tell me something. That something was his story. I was moved. When he finished, he told me, “God is still good!” and said it with a smile.  I was in awe of his trust and faith in God with all he had experienced.

There is no they and them. It’s easy to say that when you’re not sitting in front of them. Because they and them are over there, not in your circle, not your problem. You don’t have to look at their faces to see the despair and the lost hope in their eyes.

We all know what happens when there is a bully in the sandbox who hogs all the toys, throws sand in faces, and wants to keep it all for themselves. They end up standing all alone in the sandbox. No friends, no allies, no one comes when they skin their knees.

Don’t become that person. God meets our needs and blesses us beyond measure. Everything we own and have comes from him. With the gifts he gives us, things, money, and giftedness, we are to use them to help others. God always provides. Don’t let God’s light go out because you think someone is getting too much help, too much aid, too much money, or is undeserving of the help. That is none of our business; that’s God’s business. It seems there will never be enough to go around for everyone to receive help, but we need to do our part and let God provide and do the rest.

Help the Church do its part. These days, we are watching a movement within the Church to step up and do what they have allowed the government to do for decades. God did not instruct any government to do the work of the Church. But aren’t we glad they have filled in the gap, locally and globally, by providing aid during the Church’s hiatus?

The Church has recognized its downfall, and, in many cases, we see a shift as churches work to reassess their missions and budgets to provide for those in need. Many denominations have done a wonderful job organizing and providing aid for many, locally and globally.

Storing up your treasures in Heaven, not in this world, means helping others, doing for, and caring for them. If needed, use ‘what makes Jesus cry’ as your motivator. Why should we care? Because God asked us to.

Proverbs 19:17 AMPC |
He who has pity on the poor lends to the Lord, and that which he has given
He will repay to him.
[Prov. 28:27; Eccl. 11:1; Matt. 10:42; 25:40; II Cor. 9:6-8; Heb. 6:10.]
Matthew 25:40

Jesus says that whatever we do for the least of his brothers and sisters, we do for him. 

Debra Lee | Biz & Life Coach | Author | Keynote Speaker | Blogger

Books: “It Is What It Is…But It Wasn’t A Tragedy” | “Making Wise Choices…the most important life skill to master”

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